A slight detour from our normal programming - let’s chat about the final episodes of Love Is Blind season 6! I know not everyone here will care about reality TV but as a total sincere sappy person who loves authentic love… I can’t help myself. Spoilers galore, be warned!
Read MoreMarried dudes sliding into my DMs and asking me out on dates - how fun! Did I tell the wife? Of course! Sadly this isn’t the first time this has happened and likely won’t be the last. In this episode I talk about integrity, honesty, values, and the importance of doing the right thing even when it’s hard. This can help our spiritual growth, too.
Read MoreHappy new moon! Feminine Energy Without Bullshit launches today. In this episode I talk about the tendency of many women to overgive and put everyone else above themselves. I share a bit about my journey and how I moved from self abandonment to a true and deeply rooted self love.
Read MoreIn this episode, I talk about how my relationship to sex and my body has changed over time. As a young adult, I explored a lot, completely without emotion - having sex like many young men do. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to see the value in “the snail method” - taking sex super slowly, and getting to know (really really get to know) potential new partners before getting physical. I realize this is a spicy and contentious topic, and that I may get accused of slut shaming. I’m thankful for my experiences in my youth, they made me a confident and savvy woman in regards to sexuality. That being said, I do think a lot of adult women are having sex in ways that don’t benefit them, with men who don’t respect them. In this episode I talk about my perspective on that phenomenon, and how single ladies can avoid this very vulnerable kind of heartbreak of being sexually used.
Read MoreBy popular demand, in this episode I explain what a pick me woman (or “pickmeisha”) is. I give some examples of how pick me women act and think, as well as some of the extreme dark manifestations of this mindset and energy. I would argue that most women go through a phase like this as teens and young adults, and it’s part of stepping into womanhood to choose self worth, self love, and strong boundaries instead.
Read MoreHave you ever dated someone and felt more alone when you were with them, than when you were actually by yourself? In this episode I talk about a few recent tarot readings where the same exact cards came up, and what I learned from those cards (and, of course, what you can learn from these cards when they come up in your own tarot readings). Topics of the day include wounded masculine energy, the importance of recording your tarot readings, why the King of Cups reversed is a red flag in relationship readings, and two perfectly contrasting Swords cards. Join me?
Read MoreHi friends! Controversial podcast episode alert! Do you absolutely HATE when people are “flaky” - or don’t always follow through and come to plans? If so, this may be a sign that you actually betray your own boundaries on the regular, say yes when you wanna say no, and expect others to do the same. There’s other ways to live! In this episode I break down my take on this and talk about how we can all live lives that are more curious, peaceful, and understanding.
Read MoreHi all! First of all, HAPPY SUMMER SOLSTICE! After some chat about how to honour this magical moment, I discuss dating dynamics among men and women today, and remind women of the importance of keeping our standards high - respecting our own dreams for our lives and not allowing anyone to bully us out of our desires, no matter how cute they are.
Read MoreEveryone hates ghosting, it seems - well, except for me! In this episode I talk about abundance mindset, the importance of cultivating an internal locus of control, a widespread misplaced obsession with closure, and why I don’t think ghosting is that big of a deal, especially in the early days. Controversial, I know!
Read MoreIn this short but sweet episode, I debunk a common misconception about feminine energy: that it’s all about fawning, people pleasing, being bubbly, and always in a good mood. Actually, you can connect with your feminine energy and be even more of a bitch! Listen to learn how.
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I discuss something I’ve seen a lot of, mostly after women end a relationship with a man who ended up using them, playing them, lying to them, cheating on them, or whatever else. The fact is, no, you aren’t a baddie with high queen life standards if you see the warning signs and ignore them. Yes, shitty people are shitty, it’s true - all bugs are attracted to the light, both ones that bite and ones that are beautiful: once we get a glimpse of who someone is, we get to choose who and what we entertain. It’s okay to take off our mask, admit we got played, get vulnerable, and really examine ourselves to avoid something similar in the future. In this episode I talk about how this is unavoidable, actually, if we want to heal these wounds around worthiness, discernment, and abandonment in dating.
Read MoreIn this episode, we are back to talking about feminine and masculine energy. I discuss why a 50/50 split is actually often not good for romantic relationships. I also discuss some of what I’ve observed around vicious, bitter women and their shame of not being given to by the men they date - and how these women often will lash out at women who have indeed figured out feminine energy and enjoy being given to. Feminine energy is all about the ease and joy of receiving. Listen to the full episode for more!
Read MoreIt’s okay if people don’t get you. In this episode I talk about the importance of being true to ourselves and stepping into the authentic expression of who we really are - even if it means challenging long-held scripts that others have created about who we are.
Read MoreIn this episode I break down something I’ve seen soooo often in spiritual spaces - the idea of soul mates, twin flames, or finding a lover that we have also been with in a past life. Unfortunately, a lot of people are soooo attached to the idea of soul mates or twin flames, that they use these spiritual concepts to excuse or ignore abuse, bad behaviour, addiction, dysfunction, or any other sketchiness. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and what I REALLY think about soul mate love.
Read MoreY’all gonna think I’m corny for this, but I truly don’t care - I liked this book, okay! In this episode I explain why this book is relevant to anyone with a traumatic or dysfunctional childhood and/or family story, how we can find hope and inspiration everywhere (even a celebrity memoir), and what I love about Prince Harry’s approach to choosing love and saying no to family dysfunction.
Read MoreWho’s in your life impacts your vibe - it’s true on a mundane level, but on a spiritual level, too. In this episode I talk about friend breakups, and the spiritual logistics of how hanging on to people who are unaligned with you is just you fucking your own shit up. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and why.
Read MoreWhew ok - this is a BIG episode, full of lots of ideas that you may find just a little bit spicy. I talk about healthy masculinity, healthy femininity, the beauty of masculine and feminine polarity, and the ways in which contemporary feminism has set women up to fail by entrenching us in iron castles, preserving our trauma rather than healing us from it. I touch on my own gender and trauma healing journey and how healing trauma has also created space for me to connect with my inner divine feminine energy, and to recognize healthy masculine energy when it shows up. Femininity doesn’t have to be scary, dangerous, or put us at risk; it is easier for women to unfurl and blossom in our feminine energy when we are with men who are in their healthy masculine. NOTE: In this episode I do speak in energetic gender binaries - if that’s not for you, it’s ok! Most of my work involves discussing energy and polarity in gender neutral ways. It’s now time for me to get more specific about these energies and how they can play out in our lives.
Read MoreI said what I said y’all! In this episode, I break down the “I’m too nice, that’s why I keep having terrible experiences” excuse - I explain what that statement actually means, why it sucks, and what anyone who feels that way can do in their lives instead.
Read MoreWe’ve all experienced it - rejection! Maybe you get turned down from a promotion or a job interview, your partner dumps you, or maybe you realize that your crush isn’t as all that as you originally thought. Whatever the circumstance, it’s a “no” - from you, them, or the universe! In this episode I reframe what “no” means, so you can move forward with confidence and optimism - even when things don’t go how you think they would.
Read MoreJust in time for Valentine’s Day, I discuss something I’ve never really spoken publicly about - the difference between wounded and empowered masculine energy, and how to spot healthy men. I also discuss the power of energetic polarity in dating, and why this has made my life about 100x better. This is something that took me decades to learn, and I’m excited to share with you!
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