Hi all! In this episode I talk a bit about tomorrow’s new moon in Capricorn and how we can best work with these vibes to catapult ourselves into the new year - by making resolutions that incorporate both masculine energy (doing) and feminine energy (being). Who do you want to BE this year?
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I talk a bit about my feminine energy journey and how it impacted my life, my relationship with myself, and my witchcraft.
Read MoreIn this episode, I talk about how my relationship to sex and my body has changed over time. As a young adult, I explored a lot, completely without emotion - having sex like many young men do. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to see the value in “the snail method” - taking sex super slowly, and getting to know (really really get to know) potential new partners before getting physical. I realize this is a spicy and contentious topic, and that I may get accused of slut shaming. I’m thankful for my experiences in my youth, they made me a confident and savvy woman in regards to sexuality. That being said, I do think a lot of adult women are having sex in ways that don’t benefit them, with men who don’t respect them. In this episode I talk about my perspective on that phenomenon, and how single ladies can avoid this very vulnerable kind of heartbreak of being sexually used.
Read MoreBy popular demand, in this episode I explain what a pick me woman (or “pickmeisha”) is. I give some examples of how pick me women act and think, as well as some of the extreme dark manifestations of this mindset and energy. I would argue that most women go through a phase like this as teens and young adults, and it’s part of stepping into womanhood to choose self worth, self love, and strong boundaries instead.
Read MoreHave you ever dated someone and felt more alone when you were with them, than when you were actually by yourself? In this episode I talk about a few recent tarot readings where the same exact cards came up, and what I learned from those cards (and, of course, what you can learn from these cards when they come up in your own tarot readings). Topics of the day include wounded masculine energy, the importance of recording your tarot readings, why the King of Cups reversed is a red flag in relationship readings, and two perfectly contrasting Swords cards. Join me?
Read MoreIn this short but sweet episode, I debunk a common misconception about feminine energy: that it’s all about fawning, people pleasing, being bubbly, and always in a good mood. Actually, you can connect with your feminine energy and be even more of a bitch! Listen to learn how.
Read MoreIn this episode, we are back to talking about feminine and masculine energy. I discuss why a 50/50 split is actually often not good for romantic relationships. I also discuss some of what I’ve observed around vicious, bitter women and their shame of not being given to by the men they date - and how these women often will lash out at women who have indeed figured out feminine energy and enjoy being given to. Feminine energy is all about the ease and joy of receiving. Listen to the full episode for more!
Read MoreIn this episode, I chat a little about this past Mother’s Day and how it was for me - in truth, I forgot it was Mother’s Day - and wow, what a blessing to be at a place on my healing journey that I was able to not know, and then when I knew, I enjoyed it instead of being triggered. I found out it was Mother’s Day when I went to zoom church - and received a message from some departed women on my mother’s side. I explain a bit about Spiritualist mediumship and my experience having certain spirit connections unlocked and/or deepened. I also discuss mentoring as a form of mothering, and how important it is to mother ourselves, no matter how old we are.
Read MoreWith all this babble about feminine and masculine energy, you might be over there like - Sabrina, this is boring. I don’t care about romance. What about friendship? Well, in this episode, I got’chu! I talk about some examples of how feminine energy and masculine energy can show up in unhealthy ways in friendship - and why when polarity is the norm in a friendship, it’s a warning sign that something unhealthy is going on.
Read MoreIn this episode I talk about ancestor work. Of course, we all know about inter generational trauma, family dynamics and how dysfunctional systems get handed down from generation to generation within families. But what about the traumas, habits, narratives, and beliefs specific to our female and women ancestors in our lineage? In this episode I talk about why looking at gender and ancestral narratives and experiences are so important in understanding and healing our own traumas, energies, and lives - as witches, and as creators of our reality.
Read MoreDare to care about YOU! This is the beauty of feminine energy. It’s not about bagging the guy or always getting nice gifts and flowers and trips (or whatever it is you’re aching for) - tho that absolutely does happen for many women who are able to embody a feminine vibration. All of that is the icing on the cake. What feminine energy is really about is also in many ways what magic is about: shifting consciousness at will. Intentionally transforming our energy. Cultivating inner peace, contentedness, acceptance, non-immediacy, and trust in the self. Feminine energy has healed my codependency, anxiety in relating, fears of abandonment, as well as scarcity fears. Feminine energy is about expanding our capacity to feel, to be present, to receive. What’s more magical than that?
Read MoreThis isn’t gonna go the direction you think it’s gonna go - but trust me, it’s worth a listen. In this episode I work with some concepts I’ve talked about in previous episodes (disempowered masculinity, feminine/masculine polarity, manipulation red flags, healthy masculine paving the way for healthy feminine, how feminine energy is protective) and analyze the unhealthy dynamic we see between Jackie and Marshall. Spoiler alert: I’m not a Marshall fan, and believe there is more than meets the eye, that we can all take note and learn from.
Read MoreHi friends! First of all, the podcast broke 10k downloads in just over 2 months - WOOHOO! Thank you so much!! In this episode I share a bit about some upcoming offerings around feminine energy, why this is my most vulnerable work to date, why it scares the ever living daylights out of me and why I’m so committed to sharing these ideas with the world anyway. I’m prelaunching Feminine Energy Without BS next week - I hope you can come to the party! And I’m looking for 3 more women for significantly reduced rates for one on one coaching around feminine energy - let me know if this is you!
Read MoreIn an era where identity seems to usurp everything… should women always support other women? Should people of the same identity always big each other up without thought? In this episode I look at both sides of this debate and offer my thoughts on how to exist amidst today’s tensions between identity and character.
Read MoreAre you allergic to feminine energy? Tbh, I used to be. In today’s world, as a woman or femme presenting human, it can feel like we are stuck in a tension between safety and femininity - in this episode I discuss that tension, share some of my own experience, as well as offer some suggestions on how to navigate this - including a lil teaser for a massive new course.
Read MoreIn this episode I talk about a mini coaching sesh I did with someone over DMs about masculine and feminine energy in communication, in a romantic context. Masculine and feminine energy can be vague and hard to understand at first - so in this episode I give a clear example with one simple convo as a place to start. I’m sure some of y’all will know this this, but for y’all who don’t - understanding energetic polarity is so crucial and magical!
Read MoreHot take: feminine energy is protective. It took me A LONG TIME to connect with and embody feminine energy, as a lifelong nonbinary person who finally claimed womanhood last year - and learning feminine energy has been one of the best, most empowering, and transformative things I’ve ever done. I’ve also learned that it’s been quite protective against bad people, manipulation, abuse, and unhealthy relational dynamics. In this episode I explain a little about the why and how.
Read MoreWhew ok - this is a BIG episode, full of lots of ideas that you may find just a little bit spicy. I talk about healthy masculinity, healthy femininity, the beauty of masculine and feminine polarity, and the ways in which contemporary feminism has set women up to fail by entrenching us in iron castles, preserving our trauma rather than healing us from it. I touch on my own gender and trauma healing journey and how healing trauma has also created space for me to connect with my inner divine feminine energy, and to recognize healthy masculine energy when it shows up. Femininity doesn’t have to be scary, dangerous, or put us at risk; it is easier for women to unfurl and blossom in our feminine energy when we are with men who are in their healthy masculine. NOTE: In this episode I do speak in energetic gender binaries - if that’s not for you, it’s ok! Most of my work involves discussing energy and polarity in gender neutral ways. It’s now time for me to get more specific about these energies and how they can play out in our lives.
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