Hello my beautiful single ladies! In this episode I talk a little bit about a very common dating norm: going out “for drinks” on a date. I explain why this is not the way to go, how it can create situations where we abandon our own boundaries, where it’s harder to listen to our intuition, and it sets up a dynamic where someone is okay with getting us intoxicated rather than nourishing our bodies.
Read MoreIn this episode I explain what a situationship is and why it’s a horrible thing for anyone to find themselves in, but particularly awful for women. Just say no! We’ve all been there and we don’t have to stay there!
Read MoreBy popular demand, in this episode I explain what a pick me woman (or “pickmeisha”) is. I give some examples of how pick me women act and think, as well as some of the extreme dark manifestations of this mindset and energy. I would argue that most women go through a phase like this as teens and young adults, and it’s part of stepping into womanhood to choose self worth, self love, and strong boundaries instead.
Read MoreEveryone hates ghosting, it seems - well, except for me! In this episode I talk about abundance mindset, the importance of cultivating an internal locus of control, a widespread misplaced obsession with closure, and why I don’t think ghosting is that big of a deal, especially in the early days. Controversial, I know!
Read MoreIn this episode I talk about a mini coaching sesh I did with someone over DMs about masculine and feminine energy in communication, in a romantic context. Masculine and feminine energy can be vague and hard to understand at first - so in this episode I give a clear example with one simple convo as a place to start. I’m sure some of y’all will know this this, but for y’all who don’t - understanding energetic polarity is so crucial and magical!
Read MoreIn this episode I break down something I’ve seen soooo often in spiritual spaces - the idea of soul mates, twin flames, or finding a lover that we have also been with in a past life. Unfortunately, a lot of people are soooo attached to the idea of soul mates or twin flames, that they use these spiritual concepts to excuse or ignore abuse, bad behaviour, addiction, dysfunction, or any other sketchiness. In this episode I talk about what approach to take instead, and what I REALLY think about soul mate love.
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