Hi friends! Happy FULL MOON! I dunno about y’all but I’m feeling the vibes. In this episode I talk all about the importance of taking like ten steps back and getting that eagle eye view, not just about stuff like the current war, but also, ya know, our own lives. When we are up too close our vision can sometimes get cloudy.
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I talk all about what inspired me to do my biggest Black Friday sale ever (50% off of almost everything), and why Sagittarius season is the best time ever to dive into our spirituality and harvest the lessons. Sagittarius is the most spiritual and philosophical sign of the zodiac! The time is now to dive deep with me.
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I talk about why it’s so important for us as witches to not ignore science and medicine, and go get ourselves checked out! We also enter into Sagittarius Season (my season!) and I share a bit about what that means, and how to take advantage of these energies as we close out the year.
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I talk a bit about my feminine energy journey and how it impacted my life, my relationship with myself, and my witchcraft.
Read MoreHappy new moon! Feminine Energy Without Bullshit launches today. In this episode I talk about the tendency of many women to overgive and put everyone else above themselves. I share a bit about my journey and how I moved from self abandonment to a true and deeply rooted self love.
Read MoreHi friends! Happy new moon! This episode is a meandering ramble about how important it is to take responsibility for our behaviour and our choices. I talk a little bit about my own journey in life and business, as well as a bit about that insane twin flame cult and what disturbed me when I listened to interviews with folks who left.
Read MoreHave y’all seen that insane new Netflix documentary, Escaping Twin Flames Universe? It’s an insane whirlwind of an online spiritual cult and shares some testimonies of people who have escaped it. Unfortunately, this group operated online. In this episode, I talk about the cult and how fucked up and crazy it is - that isn’t really something to doubt - and I also talk about how these folks give a bad name to online courses, online course creators, and online coaches like myself and many others who do good and honest, authentic, heart felt work in the spiritual space. This will probably be the first episode of a few where I talk about this. I share a bit about how online communities were life changing for me both as an adult and a suburban teen, and how every industry has its insane people, scammers, and charlatans.
Read MoreWe are in an era of war. The violent images are endless and, in this episode, I argue that none of it does any good at this point. I’m sure my political opinions are no surprise to folks who have been here for a while, but whatever your political stance, it’s important to consider what the point is of sharing violent imagery. Is it really to raise awareness about the conflict at hand, or is it to raise awareness of ourselves as highly woke and moral?
Read MoreOver the years, it has broken my heart to see so many lovely, amazing people - especially women - give so much of their energy, time, and patience to those who don’t deserve it. Sometimes this can be out of a misplaced hopefulness, and sometimes it can be due to a scarcity mindset and an idea that we just have to tolerate misalignment. When we elevate our standards (yes, for ourselves, too, we aren’t off the hook!), we elevate our lives.
Read MoreHello my beautiful single ladies! In this episode I talk a little bit about a very common dating norm: going out “for drinks” on a date. I explain why this is not the way to go, how it can create situations where we abandon our own boundaries, where it’s harder to listen to our intuition, and it sets up a dynamic where someone is okay with getting us intoxicated rather than nourishing our bodies.
Read MoreIn this episode, I talk about how my relationship to sex and my body has changed over time. As a young adult, I explored a lot, completely without emotion - having sex like many young men do. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to see the value in “the snail method” - taking sex super slowly, and getting to know (really really get to know) potential new partners before getting physical. I realize this is a spicy and contentious topic, and that I may get accused of slut shaming. I’m thankful for my experiences in my youth, they made me a confident and savvy woman in regards to sexuality. That being said, I do think a lot of adult women are having sex in ways that don’t benefit them, with men who don’t respect them. In this episode I talk about my perspective on that phenomenon, and how single ladies can avoid this very vulnerable kind of heartbreak of being sexually used.
Read MoreIn this episode I explain what a situationship is and why it’s a horrible thing for anyone to find themselves in, but particularly awful for women. Just say no! We’ve all been there and we don’t have to stay there!
Read MoreBy popular demand, in this episode I explain what a pick me woman (or “pickmeisha”) is. I give some examples of how pick me women act and think, as well as some of the extreme dark manifestations of this mindset and energy. I would argue that most women go through a phase like this as teens and young adults, and it’s part of stepping into womanhood to choose self worth, self love, and strong boundaries instead.
Read MoreI hate to be that person who is like, “but LOGIC!” I feel like I sound like a 13 year old boy who just took his first philosophy class, lol. But alas, I am someone who is finishing up my PhD in Philosophy of Science, and who found myself shifting over the years from politically far left to being more conservative and on the right. I noticed a left steeped in identitarianism and tribalism, who mobilize emotions like shame, embarrassment, and fear: fear of being wrong, fear of being called this or that, fear of being contaminated by perspectives that are framed as evil or bad, just because the left says it is. In this episode I share my experience of attending last night’s Munk Debate on the Crisis of Liberalism, held at Roy Thompson Hall in Toronto. I talk about my impression of the speakers, what they had to say, their rhetorical style, as well as who “won” the debate by swaying more people in the vote, as well as my troubled reflections and observations on why I think they won, and how the winning rhetorical style is, unfortunately, becoming more and more common. A reflective and political discussion.
Read MoreHi friends! Wow, it didn’t take long for my week ahead tarot reading to catch up with my personal life! I talk about noticing patterns in our tarot readings, and the importance of taking note when repeat cards come up. I also talk about the most important quality in a conflict: curiosity.
Read MoreHi friends! You may be wondering - how the hell do I celebrate Samhain, aka Halloween, as a witch? Whether you’re exhausted and have little energy and not much time to do something, or whether you’re bursting with good vibes and ready to do a million things, I have some great suggestions for you.
Read MoreA big episode in a short amount of time! Are you feeling a bit better now that the eclipse has passed? I know I am! We are still feeling echoes of this energy and I talk about how to work with it.
Read MoreHi friends! In this episode I share some of what this full moon lunar eclipse in Taurus is all about, what some of the big lessons have been for me (as well as a very surprising and insightful tarot reading), and how making space for stillness and surprise can allow us the permission and inspiration to pivot in new, fulfilling directions.
Read MoreMy friends, I know. I’ve done it too. Put off important things, adulting things, or things I actually really love and want to do but… don’t. Whether it’s in learning tarot, dealing with finances and taxes, cleaning out the cat litter, or writing our next book, it’s easy to just say “I’ll do it later.” In this episode I talk about why we should do the thing, and I share some common protestations of why folks deprioritize tarot learning (and even brainwash themselves they will never learn it properly anyway).
Read MoreDo your tarot readings totally suck? Leave you feeling confused, bored, and even more stressed than you were before? In this episode, I share 3 of the biggest mistakes I see newbie tarot readers make - and, yes, sadly a LOT of “tarot pros” too! Listen to learn what these mistakes are and what to do instead.
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