How to Manifest Better Sex in 5 Simple Steps

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Did you know that manifestation doesn’t have to be only hippy dippy? Yes, that’s right - it doesn’t all have to be yoga, chanting, and white light (though I do love those things, don’t get me wrong)! You can work with manifestation around love and money, but you can also dive into your newly found manifestation skills to give your sex life a little boost.

Here are five little steps from me on how to manifest better sex.

You got this.

1: Dream big.

Don’t just wish for good sex – why not phenomenal, mind-blowing, best-you’ve-ever-had sex?

Keep dreaming until you start to get uncomfortable. That’s a sign that you’ve hit an edge, or a little bit of resistance. Notice this – it’ll show you where you can grow, and where you currently believe your limits are.

When we get uncomfortable is when we think something is out of our reach, impossible for us to achieve.

Manifesting isn’t about staying inside our comfort zone and in our limits – it’s about breaking whatever ceilings we feel we have. Finding our edge and becoming comfortable with what’s on the other side of it is a huge aspect of successful manifesting.

When it comes to manifesting good sex, we have to believe that the absolute best sex of all time is absolutely possible for us.

2: Dive into your feelings.

This is super important for manifestation success, but also for basic sexual success, too – it’s so important to stay in our bodies and pay attention to how we feel.

A key to manifestation isn’t to just know in your mind what you want – it’s also about feeling all those feelings in your body. How awesome would it feel to have like, ten orgasms in one session? Or – if you never have – to squirt for the first time? Or, if kink is more your thing, what’s your absolute wildest fantasy – and how phenomenal and arousing would it feel to actually find someone who wants the same thing?

Manifestation involves actually FEELING the excitement and arousal and satisfaction (and whatever else), not just knowing intellectually you’d feel that way in theory. Summon up the feeling in your body - whether that’s pure joy, overflowing happiness, or the bliss and ecstasy of an orgasm where multiple parts of your body are being stimulated at once. Feel free to help yourself get there!

3: Act as if.

I know what you’re hoping to manifest hasn’t happened yet – that’s cool. That’s the whole point of manifestation, right? (And of most magic!) Summoning what you want to you.

Act as if it will. Act as if it has already happened, act as if you know it will absolutely happen without any single doubt in your mind. Act as if you’re the kind of person with the kind of energy that could easily attract this experience to you, whether it’s a solo goal, something with a partner, or even a group experience.

4: Buy new undergarments that make you feel incredibly sexy – whether that’s some simple neighbour-next-door white cotton, pink lace, or slick leather dominatrix gear.

If it’s the latter, why not wear it under your clothes, with no one else the wiser? It’ll help that manifestation feel so close you can taste it.

It’ll shift your energy, drastically. Just trust me on this.

You don’t have to save undergarments that turn you on for special occasions! Wearing these often will help you connect to the energy of sex - and what sex means to you and for you - so much more easily.

5: Don’t force it.

In my world, good sex comes from good connection, whether you’re married, single, dating, flying solo and having a date with your sex toy – whatever.

Self pleasure is sexier when we feel absolutely in love with and connected to ourselves. Infatuated, even, with our own body, our own image.

Sex with others is infinitely hotter when they respect us for who we are – and nothing feels forced or trite.

Personally, I’m a girl who likes being pursued, and men often go out of their way to take me on trips, take me out to dinner, and more – and I’ve been a frequent recipient of jewellery, flowers, and other delicacies. How? My vibe. I don’t chase, I’m not codependent, and I know I’m worthy of all of that and more. I expect to be treated like a queen, and so I am.

Back when I expected to have meh sex and have lackluster dates with shitty men – that happened, too! I couldn’t envision any other life, back then!

Feelings of insecurity, inferiority, and codependence will completely fuck up whatever love and sex manifestation you’d like to do.

Shift your energy, and it will come.

Trust the process, be present, and step into your sexual power.

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